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6th July 2025
The Day of Ashura
To the one who never said much, never shed tears or asked for any thanks.
The man who waited silently at the school gate – whether in the biting cold or under the burning sun – his eyes filled with dreams for us, even as we dragged our feet, unaware of the love wrapped in every moment of that wait.
The man who weathered every storm life threw his way with a quiet smile, working double shifts,letting go of his own dreams so we could chase ours.
The one who didn’t cry when we left home – but his heart did. The one whose fears and tears stayed hidden behind strength, while his care and protection prioritised our well‑being above anything else.
Every time we stumbled, he was there – lifting us up, brushing the dirt off, whispering: “You’re alright.”
He carried us on his shoulders so we could see the world – even when it meant we saw far beyond what he ever could.
He’s Baba, Abu, Appa, Daddy – our Father!
Celebrating Fathers: The Unsung Heroes of Our Lives
How often do we overlook the weight they carry? How often do we trivialise his efforts and subtle gestures of greatness while hailing our mothers as the only ones who really understand us?
On this Father’s Day, we pause not just to celebrate with cards and coffee mugs but to reflect—spiritually, emotionally and sincerely—the role of our fathers through the divine lens of Islam.
The Role of Fathers in Islam: More Than Breadwinner
Fathers in Islam have many roles in a child’s upbringing: from being their moral compass and defining how a man should be, to being a spiritual guide who leads them in God‑loving ways. They are far more than just breadwinners for their families.
Mention of Father’s Wisdom in the Qur’an
“And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them but address them in terms of honour.” — Qur’an, 17:23
“O my son, establish prayer, enjoin what is right, forbid what is wrong, and be patient over what befalls you…”
— Qur’an, 31:17
It’s not just advice. It’s love. It’s legacy. It’s a father preparing his child for life’s storms while grounding him in faith.
“And he turned away from them and said, ‘Oh, my sorrow over Joseph,’ and his eyes became white from grief, for he was a repressor (of grief).” — Qur’an, 12:84
Our Beloved Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) as a Father
The Prophet (ﷺ) wasn’t just the Messenger of Allāh ﷻ—he was a tender, deeply loving father and grandfather. He stood when his daughter Fāṭimah (رضي الله عنها) entered the room, kissed his grandchildren, and carried them on his shoulders during ṣalāh. He said: “O Allāh, I love them (Ḥasan and Ḥusayn), so love them and love those who love them.” — Tirmidhī
When a Bedouin man saw him kissing his grandson Ḥasan, he said, “I have ten children and have never kissed any of them.”
The Prophet (ﷺ) replied:“ He who does not show mercy will not be shown mercy.” — Ṣaḥīḥ al‑Bukhārī
What About the Children Who Don’t Have Fathers?
For thousands of children, Father’s Day is a reminder of an empty chair at the table, questions left unanswered, and hugs they can only dream about.
Caring for orphans is one of the noblest acts in Islam. The Prophet (ﷺ) said:“*I and the one who sponsors an orphan will be in Paradise like this — and he held his two fingers close together". — Ṣaḥīḥ al‑Bukhārī
This Father’s Day: Honour Yours—and Help a Child Missing Theirs
If you’re blessed to have your father around, hug him tight today and say, “Thank you, Dad. I love you.”
If he has returned to Allāh ﷻ, make du‘ā’ for him, give ṣadaqah on his behalf, and keep his legacy alive.
And if your heart aches for children without fathers, consider sponsoring an orphan through our OrphanKind programme.With your support, they’ll receive food, healthcare, education—and above all, love. Because every child deserves someone to call “my father.”
Let’s be that someone.
